6 fast acting dua for marriage
My story – When the relationship got stuck and prayer opened the way, 6 Quick Dua For Marriage Proposal
Should I tell you the truth? As soon as I hear the name of marriage, my truck loads of memories. Sometimes I used to think, “Oh brother, this relationship is a very easy thing, the boy and girl meet, the family members say yes and the marriage is done.” But the reality turned out to be completely different from this.
It happened with me that a relationship was going very well, the families had met, everything seemed fine. Suddenly, for some reason, the matter got stuck. I was really very broken. I lost sleep at night, only one question kept going around in my mind – “Why with me?”
Then an old man said, “Son, man tries, but Allah gives the ability. You pray, see how Allah opens the way.” At that time, I realized the power of prayer. I prayed with tears in my eyes and a sincere heart, and Allah truly made the journey simple.
Perhaps you are also going through a similar situation. If yes, then do not lose heart. Allah never sends back empty handed.
Why do we pray for marriage?
The value of relationships and the desire of the heart
Marriage is not a small thing. It involves more than just two people meeting; it involves two families coming together. When the relationship gets stuck, there is a strange restlessness in the heart. Every phone call, every message raises the hope that maybe some good news will come.
Dua is done so that Allah turns that restlessness into relief. When the heart is heavy, talking to Allah gives the greatest relief.
The true power hidden in prayer
Dua is actually such a weapon, which works without making any sound. One can recite a very powerful prayer, or just ask Allah crying in his own words – both are effective. The only difference is of intention and truth.
Just think, when a child asks his mother for something crying, how can the mother refuse? Similarly, when a person asks Allah with a true heart, Allah also listens to him.
When and how should one pray?
Importance of wudu and clear intention
The effect of prayer increases when a person stands before Allah with freshness after performing wudu. Wudu promotes inner tranquility in addition to exterior cleanliness.
The intention should be clear. This means that the prayer should not be just for the reason “what will people say if I don’t get married.” Rather, the prayer should be “O Allah, unite me with a good person, so that both my faith and life become better.”
Prayer from the heart vs. only with the tongue
Have you ever felt that sometimes we pray but our heart is somewhere else? In such a case, the effect of prayer is reduced. Thus, when praying, the focus should be on Allah with both the heart and the mind.
If the prayer is from the heart, Allah will hear it quickly.
6 Duas that give quick results for marriage
Dua #1 – Pray to Allah for ease
“رَبِّ یَسِّرْ وَلَا تُعَسِّرْ، وَتَمِّمْ بِالْخَيْرِ”
(O Allah, make my work easy, do not make it difficult, and complete it with goodness)
This prayer is for every person who feels that the paths have been closed. Read this dua after namaz and pray to Allah for ease from the heart.
Dua #2 – Prayer for a permanent relationship
“رَبِّ هَبْ لِي مِن لَّدُنكَ زَوْجًا صَالِحًا”
(O Lord, bless me with a good couple from Your side)
This prayer is especially effective when a relationship has been established but there are obstacles in making it permanent.
Dua #3 – Prayer for satisfaction and love
“وَجَعَلَ بَيْنَكُم مَّوَدَّةً وَرَحْمَةً”
(Allah has placed love and mercy between you)
After reading this dua, ask Allah for love and affection so that the relationship is not just in name but there is a connection of hearts as well.
Dua #4 – Dua to remove obstacles
“حَسْبُنَا اللّٰهُ وَنِعْمَ الْوَكِيلُ”
(Allah is the greatest creator and is enough for me.)
Many times unnecessary obstacles come in the way of marriage. Sometimes the family members do not agree, sometimes the words of the society become a wall, and sometimes the shortage of money comes in the way. In such a situation, a person starts giving up.
But believe me, when a person recites this dua and trusts Allah, He removes every obstacle as if it never existed.
I remember, a friend’s marriage was getting stuck again and again due to some reason or the other. He recited this dua day and night. After a few months, everything became so easy for him that he himself was surprised. So if you too feel that the path is closed, then this dua is your key.
Dua #5 – Dua for quick marriage
“رَبِّ لَا تَذَرْنِي فَرْدًا وَأَنتَ خَيْرُ الْوَارِثِينَ”
(O my Lord, do not leave me alone, You are the best heir)
Loneliness is a very difficult test. When age starts increasing and the wait for marriage becomes long, the heart starts breaking. People taunt, relatives ask questions and the person gets upset inside.
In such situations, this dua has a special effect. While reciting it, describe your situation to Allah. Just like you are telling your heart out to a friend, tell it to Allah in the same way.
Many people recite this dua during Namaaz-e-Tahajjud and Allah soon makes a good match for them.
Dua #6: Dua to transform family members’ hearts
“رَبِّ اشْرَحْ لِي صَدْرِي”
(O my Lord, open my heart)
Sometimes the problem is not from outside but from inside the family. Sometimes parents or siblings are not ready to accept the relationship for some reason. In such a situation, a person gets stuck in double trouble.
After reciting this dua, pray to Allah that the hearts of the family members become soft, their anger and stubbornness go away. You will see that gradually everyone will start agreeing.
An acquaintance of mine recited this dua because his family was against the marriage of his choice. Within a few months, the situation changed and everyone happily accepted the proposal.
When is a prayer accepted?
The peaceful time of night
Night time is special. When everyone is sleeping and a person talks to his God in solitude, the effect of the prayer is deep. The Tahajjud prayer is said to be the most effective time to pray.
You might have noticed that in the silence of the night, the heart prays more heartily. Tears fall automatically and Allah’s mercy showers on the person at that time.
The moment after the prayer
The time after every prayer is a golden opportunity for the acceptance of the prayer. Both the heart and the mind are turned toward Allah at that moment.
If you are praying for marriage, then make it a habit to pause for a few minutes after every prayer and pray. Slowly you will feel the difference.
Relationship of true intention and patience
The effect of dua is seen only when the intention of a person is clear. Do not just pray for quick marriage, but pray for a good and right partner.
Patience is also very important. Sometimes Allah does not listen immediately because he is choosing the right time and the right person for us. Patience is a test of a person as well as a reward.
If you are patient while praying, then believe me Allah will write the best.
My personal advice – What else should be done along with prayer
Only prayer is not enough, along with that a person has to take practical steps as well. Allah expects us to work hard. Imagine, if someone wants a job and just keeps praying but does not send a resume, how will he get a job? Similarly, hard work is necessary for marriage as well.
- Talk openly with family members – Many times family members do not understand our thinking. If you want a special relationship to be confirmed, then talk to them gently.
- Pay attention to your habits – A good person always wants a good partner. Reduce anger, read namaz regularly and bring goodness in yourself.
- Increase interaction with people – Relationships often come through loved ones and relatives. That is why keep your circle active.
- Do Istekhara – If you are confused about a special relationship, then Istekhara is very important. This will give you guidance from Allah.
That is, pray with your heart but try with your hands. This is the real formula.
Result – Keep faith and hope
Marriage is a big step and for this the heart of a person becomes very delicate. Sometimes if it is yes then we jump with joy, sometimes if it is no then it seems as if everything is over.
But remember, whatever Allah writes, no one can stop it. And whatever Allah does not want, no one can make it happen.
If your dua is not being accepted today, then maybe tomorrow something even better than that has been written for you. Keep faith, do not lose hope and stay connected to your God.
FAQs – Frequently Asked Questions
Q1: Can marriage happen only with dua?
No, along with dua one should work hard too. Allah helps the person who tries himself.
Q2: Does dua work quickly?
Yes, if dua is done from the heart and with true intention, then its effect is quick. But it is important to be patient.
Q3: What is the best time for Dua?
Night time (Tahajjud), after Namaaz and Friday are considered the most effective.
Q4: Can I offer prayers for anybody I want?
Of course you can, but Allah will give you what is best for you.
Q5: If my Dua is not fulfilled, does that mean Allah did not listen to me?
No, Allah listens to every prayer. If your Dua is not fulfilled, then surely Allah has something better in store for you.
