Starting with a small story
To tell you the truth, after marriage I used to think that I will get my husband’s love automatically. I had seen in movies that husband and wife love each other very much and always stay together. But real life soon taught me that the reality is a little different.
One day I was sitting all dressed up, I thought that my husband will praise me today. But as soon as he came home, his attention was on his mobile and office work. I felt as if I was invisible. At that time there was anger and sadness in my heart. Maybe you too have felt this – when your own person does not notice you.
That very night I prayed to Allah with a true heart for the first time. The prayer that came from my heart was, “O Allah, increase the love in the hearts of me and my husband.” And believe me, in a few days the atmosphere between us changed. My husband started paying more attention than before, started asking about small things.
So I learned that prayer is not just words, it is the pain and love from the heart which reaches Allah directly.
The importance of husband’s love
Now you think, why is husband’s love so important? Marriage is not just the name of a relationship, it is a foundation based on trust and love. When a woman gets her husband’s love, she feels a sense of belonging and respect. The home’s beauty also increases because of that.
But when there is a lack of love, life starts to seem dull. Fights over small things, less conversation with each other, or the burden of silence slowly eats away at the relationship.
In such a situation, prayer is the biggest support. Because love is a matter of hearts, and only Allah can change hearts.
Easy dua to get husband’s love
If you feel that your husband is getting away from you, or does not show the same love as before, then read this prayer from your heart.
Dua:
“Allahumma Allif baina quloobina wa aslih zata bainina wahdina subulassalam.”
Meaning:
O Allah, put love in our hearts, mend our relationship, and guide us on the path of safety.
While reciting this, pray with all your heart, look at your mistakes too, and ask Allah for love with true faith.
When and how to pray?
- Read in the morning after Fajr Namaaz
- Pray from the heart before going to sleep at night
- Ask Allah for love by taking the name of your husband
- Be sure to say “Amen” after the prayer
Dua is not just to be read, it is to be felt. When you pray with a crying heart, Allah will definitely listen.
Small things that increase the effect of prayers
- Talk to your husband in a sweet tone
- Take care of his small preferences
- Respond with love instead of anger
- Make him realize that you pray for him
Remember, if prayers and efforts go together, the effect is faster.
Ways to increase love with husband
We have to pray from our heart, but sometimes our own efforts are also necessary to maintain the relationship. Nothing changes just by waiting, it is also important to express love.
Just think—when you get a gift of your choice, or suddenly hear something sweet, the heart becomes so happy. The same is the case with the husband. A small compliment, a sweet smile, or his favorite food, all these make the relationship sweet.
Some easy ways:
- Learn to praise – no matter how busy your husband is, when you say “You are looking very good today”, his day will be made.
- Plan a surprise – sometimes suddenly make his favorite dinner.
- Give time – pay more attention to your husband than to the TV or mobile.
- Express love – sometimes write small notes, like “You are the answer to my prayer.”
All these seem like small things, but these small things make the relationship very strong.
The power of a wife’s true prayer
A woman’s prayer has a lot of effect. When she prays for love, happiness and safety for her husband, Allah surely listens to her prayer.
It is also mentioned in the Quran that “Allah knows the condition of the heart.” This means that it is not the prayer that comes from the tongue, but the prayer that comes from the heart that has an effect.
When you pray for your husband, your relationship becomes deeper. In a way, you hand over your love to Allah. And Allah never lets there be a lack in love.
Remember, prayer is not just asked, but faith is also placed on it. If there is no faith, then the effect will also be incomplete.
Why does love between husband and wife decrease?
This question comes to the mind of many women. Everything is fine in the beginning, then why does love gradually start decreasing?
- Responsibilities increase – After marriage, the burden of children, house and office pushes love back.
- Less conversation – When husband and wife start talking less to each other, the distance increases.
- Small misunderstandings – Sometimes using mobile, sometimes spending more time outside, these create doubt.
- Stop expressing love – “He knows that I love him” this thought weakens the relationship.
Actually, hard work is required to keep love alive. Just like a plant needs water daily, similarly the relationship also needs care.
How to bring husband closer to you?
If you want your husband to love you more and cannot live without you, then adopt some habits:
- Be his friend – Not just a wife, be a friend too. Listen to him, take interest in his dreams.
- Reduce anger – Suppose, if there is a fight every day then where will the love come from?
- Give respect – Respect your husband in front of you and in front of others.
- Express love with dua – Make him feel that you pray for him.
These things will make your relationship stronger and bring your husband closer to you.
Islamic dua to win husband’s heart
Many times women think that only effort is not enough, there should be some dua which has direct effect.
Effective dua:
“Rabbana hablana min azwajina wa dhurriyatina qurrata a’yunin waj‘alna lil-muttaqeena imama.”
Meaning:
O our Lord, give us the coolness of our eyes from our wives and children and make us the leader of the pious.
Read this after Namaaz and pray with all your heart that your husband’s heart may be filled with love.
Things to keep in mind while praying for your husband
Dua is not magic, but a call of the heart to Allah. But it is effective only when we pray with the right intention and truth. It is important to remember a few things:
- Pray with sincerity – it should not be just a formality. The prayer should come from the heart.
- Be patient – sometimes the effect of the prayer is not seen immediately. Allah gives the best answer at the right time.
- Repent for your sins – if a person prays after asking for forgiveness for his sins, then its effect is more intense.
- Do not wish ill for anyone else – while praying to bring your husband closer, do not wish that he hates anyone else. The prayer for love should be done only with love.
These small things make the prayer more effective.
Suggestions to strengthen the relationship between husband and wife
Along with dua and love, there are some practical things too which always keep the relationship fresh.
- Talk for a while every day – no matter how much work you have, talk to each other from your heart.
- Pray together – Praying together connects hearts even more.
- Share small joys – like drinking tea together, taking time out, going for a walk.
Express the importance of each other – sometimes words like “you are so important to me” do magic in a relationship.
Learn to accept your mistakes – saying “sorry” is the biggest strength of a relationship.
If you adopt these things, your relationship will become stronger.
Dua to get husband’s love back
Many women complain that after a few years of marriage, husbands do not pay as much attention as before. If this is the case, then this prayer can be helpful for you.
Dua:
“Ya Wadoodu, Ya Lateefu, Ya Rahmanu, Ya Raheemu, ij‘al mahabbata zawji fi qalbi wa mahabbati fi qalbihi.”
Meaning:
O Allah, the loving, the merciful, put love for me in my husband’s heart and love for him in my heart.
Read this 11 times after every namaaz and pray with true faith.
Relationship between Namaaz and Dua to win husband’s heart
Namaaz is not only obligatory, it is also a means of cleansing hearts. When you pray after praying, the call of your heart reaches Allah quickly.
- Dua after Fajr Namaaz is considered to be the most effective.
- Tahajjud Namaaz (in the last part of the night) is very effective for the prayer of love.
- When you raise your hands and pray after namaaz and cry, Allah unites the hearts.
Remember, the relationship between namaaz and dua is like the relationship between a door and a key. Namaaz is the door and dua is its key.
Result: Prayer and belief in love
Married life is never easy. Everyone has their share of ups and downs. But if you have true belief and a prayer from your heart, then love returns again.
To win your husband’s heart, not only prayer, but your love, your patience and your efforts are also important. Love is not a one-day thing, it is taken care of every day.
So from today itself, believe in the power of prayer, express love and improve the relationship.
FAQs (Frequently Asked Questions)
- Can husband’s love be regained by just reciting a prayer? Yes, if the dua is recited from the heart and there is also effort then it is definitely effective.
- Is it right to pray by taking the name of the husband?
Yes, it is effective to ask Allah by taking the name of the husband while praying.
- After which prayer is the dua most effective?
After the prayers of Fajr and Tahajjud, the dua of love is considered to be the most effective.
- For how many days should one pray?
Until the effect is seen, continue praying with patience and faith. - Can the husband’s anger also be reduced by prayer?
Yes, prayer creates both love and softness in the heart.
