Sometimes there are moments in life when the heart wants the other person to love us the way we love them. This is about the initial days of my marriage. I went to my new home with great expectations. Like in the movies, I thought that my husband would hold my hand all the time, and every morning his day would start with my smile. But the reality was a little different. Between the workload, responsibilities and the hustle and bustle of day and night, sometimes it felt as if I was left behind somewhere. Shohar Ki Mohabbat Pane Ki Dua
One night I fell asleep crying and the next day after namaaz, I prayed – “O Allah, create love for me in my husband’s heart.” At that very moment, I realized that the real power is in prayer. Humans try, but only Allah can change hearts.
Today I am going to tell you the same things that I have felt and learned myself. If you feel that your husband does not love you like before or you want that his heart should always beat for you, then this article is for you.
Why is husband’s love important?
Think about it, if there is no love in a relationship, what remains? Food, home, responsibilities – all these things go on, but without love, everything seems desolate. Husband’s love and affection is the biggest treasure of happiness in a woman’s life.
Have you ever noticed that when your husband asks you lovingly, “How are you?”, the day seems so easy. And if he says just two words in anger, the heart breaks. Love is the thread that strengthens a relationship.
Don’t you want your husband’s eyes to always look for you? He should see only you in every crowd? This is the love that gives solace and courage to a woman.
The power of prayer and the relationship of hearts
We all know that prayer can change a person’s life. When we ask Allah from our heart, he never returns empty-handed. The love of the husband is also sought from the one who has made hearts.
Sometimes people say that “to make the husband happy, just cook good food” or “everything will be fine if you look beautiful.” But the real truth is that only Allah creates love in hearts. It is the power of prayer that keeps the relationship always fragrant.
I have personally experienced that whenever I ask Allah for love by taking my husband’s name in the prayer after Namaaz, his heart becomes softer towards me. Small things that used to make me angry earlier, now he laughs it off.
Easy dua to get husband’s love
If you want your husband to always love you and never go away from you, then recite this easy prayer after your Namaaz:
“Allahumma allif baina kulubina wa aslih zata bainina wa ihdina suwalssalam.”
The meaning of this prayer is – “O Allah, unite our hearts, improve the condition between us and guide us to the right path.”
Read this prayer after every obligatory prayer and ask Allah for love with a true heart.
Easy practices to increase love in a relationship
Along with prayers, there are some small practices that make the relationship even more beautiful.
- Be punctual in prayers and take the name of your husband every time.
- Talk in a sweet tone. Anger spoils things.
- Take care of your husband’s choice, whether it is clothes or food.
- Pray to Allah for each other every day.
Remember, not only prayers, but your attitude also becomes the reason for love.
Intention from the heart to get the love of husband
Every work depends on intention. If your intention is clear and you are asking for love only for the sake of Allah, then it will definitely be effective. But if the purpose is only to “control” then it is not right. Getting the love of husband is not any magic, but the result of true prayer made from the heart.
Think, when you pray for children, then you want from the heart that they should be happy, be good. Similarly, when you pray for the love of husband, then keep the intention that the relationship should be strong, there should be peace in the house and Allah’s blessings should be showered. This intention gets your prayer accepted.
Special way of Namaaz to increase love
Namaaz is not just a name of fulfilling the duty, it is the biggest way to give peace to the heart. If you want that your husband’s heart should always beat for you, then take the help of Namaaz.
- After every farz namaz, read “Ya Wadudu” (O creator of love) 11 times.
- After that, pray by taking the name of your husband.
- Do this practice continuously for 21 days.
Remember, Namaz is not only a means of getting your prayers accepted, but it also refreshes your soul. When you cry and pray from your heart in Sajda, then Allah surely listens.
The real secret to get your husband’s love
Many women think that everything will be fine just by reading the prayer. But the real secret is in giving love in return of love. If you want your husband to love you from the heart, then first you should show the same affection for him.
- Appreciate his hard work.
- Support him in every situation.
- Do not get angry on small mistakes.
- Behave with love.
Remember, love is like a mirror. Whatever your attitude, the other person’s heart will reflect the same.
Why is it important to avoid misunderstandings?
Love remains in a relationship only when there is no scope for misunderstandings. It has been seen many times that small things create big cracks in a relationship.
Have you ever wondered why doubts start arising on a missed call or late arrival? The reason is that we leave space in the heart.
If you really want your husband’s love, then first trust him. Doubting again and again or fighting over every matter reduces love. When trust is strong, love will deepen automatically.
Relationship of prayer and patience
Sometimes it happens that we pray but the effect is not seen immediately. At that time the heart starts breaking. But remember, prayer and patience are connected to each other.
Allah Ta’ala knows which thing to give and when. It is possible that today you are crying for love and tomorrow the same love may descend into your heart like an ocean.
So if you feel that the effect of your prayers is delayed, then be patient. Everything happens as per Allah’s will.
Night dua to get husband’s love
Night time is the most special time for prayer. When everyone sleeps and a person bows his head in solitude, he is closest to Allah.
If you want your husband’s heart to always beat for you, then pray in Tahajjud Namaaz. At that time, cry and ask Allah for love. These moments of prayer can change your life.
I have myself felt that whenever I prayed in the solitude of night, the atmosphere changes the next day. Husband’s attitude becomes even more loving and soft.
Increasing love with the verses of the Quran
The Quran is not just for reading, but also for implementation. It has a solution to every problem, even love.
A verse that is often recited is:
“Rabbana habb lana min ajwaajina wa zurriyatina kurrata ayyunim wajaalna lilmuttaqina imama.”
Meaning – “O our Lord, make us a refreshment for the eyes through our wives and our children and make us the leaders of the pious.”
Recite this verse daily and pray, Allah will fill your home with love and peace.
The real wisdom to get your husband’s love
Many times women think that just reciting a dua is enough, but the real wisdom lies in good behavior along with prayer.
- If you want your husband to respect you, then first respect him.
- If you want him to respect you, then you should also appreciate his efforts.
- Love increases by giving, not by withholding.
The reality is that prayers work only when the person himself tries. Love is maintained not by just reading words but by changing from the heart.
Maintaining love with the mercy of Allah
Have you ever thought, why does love change? The reason is that a person forgets that everything is due to the mercy of Allah. When we keep our relationship with Allah strong, then human relationships also remain strong.
- Ask for forgiveness daily.
- Be thankful that Allah has blessed you with your husband.
- Have faith in Allah in every situation.
Remember, maintaining love is not just a relationship between you and your husband, but also between you and Allah.
Result – Love is the prayer of the heart
In the end, I would like to say that getting the love of your husband is not a difficult task. If you pray with a true heart, behave lovingly and have patience, then Allah will surely fulfill the desire of your heart.
Life is truly peaceful only when there is love and affection in the home. So today, bow your head in Sajda and say to Allah – “O Allah, keep the love between me and my husband always intact.”
FAQs About Shohar Ki Mohabbat Pane Ki Dua
- Can husband’s love increase just by dua?
Yes, if the prayer is from the heart and the intention is clear, then Allah definitely shows the effect.
- Which verse should be read for husband’s love?
The verse of the Quran “Rabbana Habba Lana Min Ajwajina…” is very effective.
- Is praying at night more effective?
Yes, especially the prayer done in Tahajjud Namaz is answered very quickly.
- What to do if the husband is always angry?
Talk in a soft tone and pray to Allah, gradually the anger in his heart will turn into love.
- Is there an easy way to keep love alive?
Yes, along with prayers, trust, patience and closeness keep love alive.
